Make Room For The Stuttering

I Want You To Meet A Friend

Posted on: October 17, 2016

On the last night of improv class, one of my classmates came up to me to talk for a minute. She had a sheepish look on her face, as if she was wasn’t sure how I’d react to what she was about to say.

She said, “You know, how, like you stutter” and she had her hand cupped over her mouth as if she didn’t want anyone else to hear it. She went on to say, “I have a friend who stutters too and I really think you two should meet. She’ll be here tonight.” I said, “OK.”

Well, we got busy with the show and performing and all and before we knew it, the night was over and I was saying my goodbyes. My classmate mentioned that I hadn’t met her friend. I told her I had to get going, as I was driving my mom home. She said maybe another time then, as she was sure we’d hit it off.

I laughed to myself. How many times has this happened to you? That someone wants to introduce you to someone just because you both stutter. Like we’d be fast friends because we have stuttering in common.

Note to readers: just because two people stutter doesn’t mean they will be best friends. Just like with anyone else, you may not like each other, one might rub the other the wrong way or maybe one is a jerk, (not me of course!) despite being a person who stutters.

It is true that people who stutter definitely have something in common, but it doesn’t automatically mean they will hit it off and become best friends. I just think it’s funny that people automatically want to introduce me to someone else who stutters because they’re sure we’ll hit it off.

This has happened to me several times. What about you?

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2 Responses to "I Want You To Meet A Friend"

Interesting story. I wonder if she wanted to introduce you because she sees how confident you and and thinks it might be helpful for her friend to meet you? So many PWS say that they don’t know any others, and perhaps she wanted her friend to meet other PWSs. Just a thought!

I had more or less the same thought as Beth B. Perhaps her friend does not deal constructively with her stutter. She might benefit from seeing and meeting another person who stutters who is out there and dares to participate in improv classes?

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